GIVING AND RECEIVING

The universe operates through a dynamic exchange … giving and receiving are a facet of this flow of energy, and in our willingness to give that which we seek; we can enjoy the abundance of the universe flowing into our lives.
Because our bodies and minds and that of the universe are in a constant dynamic exchange, stopping the circulation of that energy is like stopping a flowing river. A river that stops flowing begins to stagnate, to suffocate and destroy its very own life force. Circulation sustains and maintains its vibrancy. That is why we must give and receive to keep relationships, wealth and affluence – or anything we want to flourish in our lives. When we learn to give that which we seek, we mobilize and choreograph life’s symphony with an exquisite, energetic and vibrant force.
A story of is told of man who had a dream in which he was invited to a banquet. First he saw a magnificent hall in which people were seated at tables laden with the finest, mouth-watering delicacies. Observing the people, he was horrified to see that were eyeing the food hungrily, yet they were starving.
Why weren’t they eating? Upon closer observation, he noticed that their hands were tied to knives and forks which were much too long to bring to their mouths. Their arms were straight, and bending their elbows was completely impossible for them to bring the food to their mouths, even though every pleasurable food was available. It was so close, yet out of reach! There was no alternative but to go hungry. He was then shown another banquet room and to his amazement, the people were jolly and healthy looking – and they were eating – although their hands were also tied to long cutlery. They appeared well fed and content. Upon closer study, he noticed they were reaching across the table and feeding one another so that they didn’t have to bend their arms. Those who merited to sit at these tables were accustomed to giving and benefitting others. By feeding one another from across the table they quickly realized that they would satisfy everyone.
The foundation upon which a relationship stands is a willingness to give, without expecting anything in return. Though our thoughts may sometimes stray and appear valid when we think – ‘What about his side of the bargain?’ or, ‘What is in this for me?’ or ‘Why doesn’t he do the same as I do for him?’ They are actually insidiously destructive; making the basis of a good relationship weaker the longer and stronger they persist.
Every relationship is one of give and take. Giving engenders receiving, and receiving engenders giving. In reality, receiving is that same as giving, because giving and receiving are different aspects of dynamic flow of energy. The more you give, the more you will receive, because you will tap into the abundance of the universe. This precept works equally well for individuals, companies, communities, and nations.
The intention of one’s giving should always be to create happiness for the giver and the receiver. One reason why giving and doing good for others can provide meaning and sustain a pleasurable sensation is that when we give to others, attest to the value, and dignity of the one whom we consider deserving of help. This is of even greater impact when we are non-discriminatory in our willingness to give. The return is directly proportional to the giving when it is unconditional and from the heart.
The gifts of caring, appreciation, attention, affection, love and kindness are some of the most precious gifts one can give.
“GIVING HAS THE POWER TO TRANSFORM THE ETERNAL DANCE OF LIFE”